Monday, December 8, 2014

Be STRONG ! Spread LOVE !

You know...when you are being given up or scolded by someone you love the most , someone you like the most you feel dumb (I  felt it when i was a kid ) because after doing all with them they reject you for nothing.. for no reason..I used to cry over nights to until my pain vanishes. I l tell you someone's experience (true story okay).
She was kind of extra sensitive for anything..Cry for every little thing wanted to be alone all the time ..And she used to keep all the things in her little brain but when she is having a problem everybody see it through her eyes ..Reason ? If someone has cried for continuous hours the eyes get dark..bad voice ..reduce the shine of eyes and all.. Same thing for her..
All she wanted was love and attention of people around her..and when she is not getting that she thought that tears can heal it..
Most of all when her  better-half is little harsh for no reason and she thinks like "Why the hell i am living with him" after putting all the effort to make him a man with a good heart.
She told me a simple story happened recently...She could not answer the phone as she was studying with friends because she has muted her phone.. She never mute it if he is available but the thing is he has gone on a trip with friends so he has told my friend he is unable to talk with her all the time..Poor girl..He has called her and she has not replied...But the second time she saw it and answered....Can you believe the way he talked... ? "What the hell are you doing?...you have muted the phone and hanging out friends.. Playing with me ?Do you think i have no one other than you ? I have okay.. I have many other than you..and better than you even..If you do this again i will hang you okay be careful..Don't think that you can stay happily  if you leave me..What have you done for me ? Nothing right .. if you think you did you have mistaken..Things you have done are just common ..Anybody can do those little thing?" And so more...She cried a lot..didn't speak a single word . Packed herself and went home...Once i heard the story i feel like ""WHY !" That is damn unfair...I don't say that they should breakup but he can be flexible .. a little.. 
I know that they are a happy  couple but why things like that..It should not happen . Actually it is a two way thing. Think how you can make the situation okay and cool..Don't ever keep quite because he hates it. You need to answer him. Don't cry and try me make the things worse. Speak with him. Show LOVE . If you truly love him you should know how to change the situation. He will be okay right ? Do not ever think that it is the worst thing happened .. Have patience..Have good life ahead...Do not GIVE UP.. :)
love 
-Tammy-

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